My Imaginary Audience...

I read an interesting blog that I think I want to explore more then my comments I left for her. Judy made a good point about breaking the pencils and riping up the notes that our imaginary audience are taking as we live our lives. I'm thinking of all the people who have been in my life that shape my "set of rules" that I also give them the credit to crique me or what I think they would say and write. That's where I get some of my sayings like if I don't fold the laundry or do the dishes right away (they could sit for at least a week sometimes ...lol) then I'm a bad wife. But am I a bad wife? Why do I think I am for something so trival? It's got to do with that imaginary audience that I have in my mind speaking out to me. Believing the lies and misbeliefs is wrong but it's second nature and I'm having to relearn what is the truth...sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't...but for now it's a goal and not another rule to follow!