with tears in his eyes..............

soooooooooooo my husband comes into the living room with one shoe on and one sock.....the look on his face that scared me........he went back to the bedroom

In tears of pain running down his cheek, the look he gave i didn't see my husband...he had never shown me that side very often...it scared me...

pain....physically -- his arms were numb and yet hurting really bad...emotionally -- not being able to tie his shoe or put the other shoe on...his weight and dejected self esteem from being morbily obese.........the pain in his eyes, SCARED ME!