Expectations

What do you expect out of life -- family, friendships, relationships, a sense of purpose? I expect love -- to be love and to love. How can I show the unconditional love and not wanting something in return? I expect trust that people aren't out to hurt me. But are my reactions the cause of pain or my perception to view pain? I need to live for today. I need to be joyful for the moments I have. Aren't they all numbered?